“Girls are so damn dumb sometimes no offense to you or anything but one minute they want a good guy that will treat them the way a girl needs to be treated one who wont play games cheat lie all that good shit. Then they get it and they end up fucking you over. Seriously I’m tired of hypocrites you want it, I’m sure you can find it in me. Then you get it and you treat me like shit. Either that or they leave you for another guy the exact opposite from what they actually want. Then that guy leaves and they want to come back. But from now on I’m moving forward fuck moving back, This treadmill lifestyle ain’t working for me I’m moving forward from now on.”— My Cousin
i was hoping after high school, this mentiality women have would end, i seriously hope it does. i mean, everytime the girl always goes back to some worthless dude. he gets all the benefits, but he treats her like shit, meanwhile me, mr.niceguy continues to treat her like a lady
its over, imma be a straight dick when it comes to relationships
I’ve learned that the “good girl/boy” and “bad girl/boy” are just titles, because everyone has their own definitions. I don’t understand why a supposed “good guy” likes the girl who likes the supposed “bad boy”. Ya’ll really shouldn’t be in the same circle and if ya’ll are you shouldn’t even take it personal when he/she doesn’t see the potential in you.
When I was younger I thought I was dating the supposed “good guy”. He dressed like the good guy, listened to a varierty of different music, was open-minded, never seen a jail cell…etc etc. And then he cheated on me. Does that make him bad? Nah it makes him a human being that made a bad decesion when it came to our relationship.
And honestly sometimes the supposed “good guys” aren’t all that great, just because you ain’t played a few females doesn’t mean you are the best catch. I’ve met supposed “good guys” who have filthy rooms, who complain a lot, aren’t really go getters, who aren’t good in bed, or who are just flat out boring. But since you’ve never cheated on a girl and you got good grades in high school I’m suppose to automatically swoon? Nah, that’s not how it works in my world. And I may be coming off as an ass, but there are certain qualities that a supposed “bad guy” has that a “good guy” doesn’t and vice versa.
Supposed “good guys” can do “bad” things and supposed “bad guys” can change and be for the good. I don’t get upset when people are dating other people who I feel aren’t right for them. They will learn, whatever he/she is going through will hopefully prepare them for their next relationship. People aren’t wearing signs on their foreheads that say GOOD and BAD. So as being a youngin SOMETIMES this love game is all trial and error.
