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wilsworld:

stupidridiculous:

wilsworld:

stupidridiculous:

We all know how those first conversations go when you talk to someone new that you are interested in. We ask/answer a lot of the same questions. “Do you have any siblings? What do you want to be when you grow up? What’s the freakiest place you ever had sex?” One question I will not answer ever again is “What are you looking for in a person?”

That is just too much information. But WHY do you ask? Guys, have you ever had a conversation with a girl, you may talk about how sexually open you are, and then the next thing you know she turns into the “freak of the week”. Be cautious because sometimes that is just too damn convenient. Or ladies, you may state how you are about to take your career serious and the guy gives you some lame speech about how he is on his “grown man” now, how he no longer goes clubbing because it is “played out” etc. etc. and so forth.

I guess sometimes people are so into other people they are willing to say anything or do anything at that moment to get in a good spot. Or they are not comfortable with being themselves, or they are really just physically attracted to you and want to fuck, but feel bad about it. There are many reasons. But if you give the details of what you are looking for in a person, you may have set yourself up in a trap. People are great actors, and once they have you hooked, they get comfortable and start to settle and show their true colors. Then you are crying in your pillow, trying to figure out if you should stay in the relationship and work things out because that’s what a “good partner” does, when it could have been avoided.

Of course people just change within and relationship. I’m just saying if you are my type, you will know….eventually.

Some people ask the question to figure out if that person’s ideal person is them. lol. I mean, yeah you get the weak people who are like, “Thats me!” at which point most of us are like “eh, I dont think so” lol. I think its a reputable question, but not until you and that person are seeing each other on a regular basis. So, yeah, eventually is right.

I actually like (or should I say liked) to ask random questions. lol. They definitely let you into a person’s psyche more than most superficial questions. Next time someone asks “What are you looking for in a person?” ask them “What are you most likely to be arrested for?” lol. It catches people off guard and gives you a real glimpse. Plus I just like to see people sweat. Damn I’m evil…

But if you are seeing someone on a regular basis, is there really a need to ask the question? I’m all into asking random questions as well, because I’ve come to find out that people seem to talk to you like they are reading from some tired script.

True, but I mean, even seeing someone on a regular basis can be misleading. People these days are crazy phony. I would argue that it takes at least 3-4 months to actually start seeing the real person. I blame TV for the romanticization of romance (that definitely makes sense lol). People just say what they think others want to hear.Those scripts need to be burned.

PS- Why are you still awake? lol

I’m always up late. I’m still trying to figure out if that’s a good or bad thing.

Wow. I def think its a bad thing. lol. If I didnt have two finals tomorrow, I’d be curled up in my bed. Are you just up on Tumblr or are you actually doing something? lol

I’m browsing the web. People usually don’t post this late. Got AIM sir?